How to choose flowers for a first date?

14.11.2024 | Dana Rohová

So you have a first date! Your heart is pounding, your hands are sweating and your brain is thinking about one question: "What flowers to bring so you can make an impression but not look like you're going to an engagement party?"

Don't worry, we've got some advice on how to pick a flower that says "I have taste, I'm fun, and I'm thinking about getting married in a few years."

Avoid roses. Really

Yes, roses are beautiful and fragrant. But if you come up with red roses, your counterpart may feel like they're in a scene from a soap opera. Plus, roses on the first date send the signal "I'm here for a relationship for life." And what if the date turns into a fiasco? You don't keep a rose as a souvenir...

Our recommendation: reach for something with less drama but more freshness. How about tulips? They're beautiful, cheerful, and they don't scream "Give it up, beautiful!"

Freesia: flowers for comfort

Freesias are kind of the inconspicuous stars. Unobtrusive, yet elegant. These flowers smell great, have a subtle charm, and don't say anything obligatory. They're just like a friend who's always cool.

Tip for you: choose white, yellow or purple. You don't want to look like you picked the flowers wrong.

Carnations? Yes, but mini ones!

Mini carnations are great! They look cute, symbolize admiration and aren't exactly common on a first date. Plus, they look good in all colours and give the impression that you know something about flowers. But skip the classic red carnations just in case, they're more reminiscent of mom than a date.

What to choose: Soft pastel tones - non-aggressive but personal.

Gerbery: Fun in a bouquet

Gerberas are colourful, cheerful and always in a good mood. If you want your counterpart to know you're the type of person who doesn't take herself too seriously, try one or two in a bright color. Gerberas are like, "I'm not expecting a serious commitment from you, let's just have fun." That's what you want on a first date.

Remember: Leave room for a kiss and don't choose a flower that's too big. Your hand can then be free for other purposes... like holding the other one.

Sunflower: Did you come from the farm?

Who doesn't like sunflowers? They're cheerful, warm and sincere. But beware - this flower is more suitable for a second, maybe third date. But if you've managed to arrange a first date at a country estate or festival, then you're good to go. Just get with the times and the sunflower will be a hit.

Meadow flowers: Natural beauty

If you want to express relaxed and natural elegance, meadow flowers are a great choice. Daisies, cornflowers or delicate grasses look casual and look approachable. Your counterpart will immediately understand that there is no need to pretend with you. Even better, meadow flowers indicate that you have an eye for detail and can appreciate the beauty of simple things. But beware! Try to stay stylish so it doesn't look like you picked the flowers while walking the dog.

Bouquet size.

The size of the bouquet on a first date should be decent. A large bouquet is great for an anniversary, but for a first date, it's better to choose a smaller, well-arranged bunch. A small bouquet looks elegant and the practicality will be appreciated by your counterpart - he won't have to worry all the time about where to put the huge bouquet. Ideally, choose a compact bouquet that is beautiful enough to make an impression, but not so large that it looks too showy.

Bonus advice: Leave a message, but subtly

If you want to play the romantic, add a small card with a personalised message. Like "I like nice things... and you among them." But not too sweet. Just something simple that can break the ice naturally.

Believe it or not, flowers can be the best or funniest part of the evening. So feel free to choose something cheerful, playful or subtle - and who knows? Maybe next time it won't be a first date, but a second or third. Good luck!